Post by Importance (he/him) on Apr 13, 2015 1:54:55 GMT
Well, um, hello,
I've been wanting to register but I got to anxious and was really happy to hear you do not mind people asking anonymously like this.
I've been having trouble with my gender and wanted to hear others' opinion on it, so here goes nothing:
I was assigned female at birth and I have noticed that I was ever since I was a very small child always happy when people mistook me for male. I was also very scared about my breasts growing and hoping that when I hit puberty my breast remained small (i was envious of grown women with small breasts). I always said I wished I was born male and about a year ago, jokingly my bf started using male pronouns which made me very happy. I always liked wearing sweatshirts that are too small so they bind my chest and I wasn't pleased when my parents started buying me bras, I didn't wear them often. I started identifying as genderqueer and ask for male pronouns when people talk to me. I definitely do identify as male but I've always liked make-up, skirts, stockings and similar femme things (also it may be just because it is expected of me to like them, as my family has a history of emotionally abusing me, I really do not know right now). I am getting more and more troubled by my female-looking body. I enjoy dressing stereotypically male (and I enjoy that I pass so well that strangers do not see I was assigned female at birth) but I have days I really want to wear my femme things.
Does it make sense that I may bigender as in transmale and neutrois?
I hope this makes sense
Thank you very much, in advance.
I've been wanting to register but I got to anxious and was really happy to hear you do not mind people asking anonymously like this.
I've been having trouble with my gender and wanted to hear others' opinion on it, so here goes nothing:
I was assigned female at birth and I have noticed that I was ever since I was a very small child always happy when people mistook me for male. I was also very scared about my breasts growing and hoping that when I hit puberty my breast remained small (i was envious of grown women with small breasts). I always said I wished I was born male and about a year ago, jokingly my bf started using male pronouns which made me very happy. I always liked wearing sweatshirts that are too small so they bind my chest and I wasn't pleased when my parents started buying me bras, I didn't wear them often. I started identifying as genderqueer and ask for male pronouns when people talk to me. I definitely do identify as male but I've always liked make-up, skirts, stockings and similar femme things (also it may be just because it is expected of me to like them, as my family has a history of emotionally abusing me, I really do not know right now). I am getting more and more troubled by my female-looking body. I enjoy dressing stereotypically male (and I enjoy that I pass so well that strangers do not see I was assigned female at birth) but I have days I really want to wear my femme things.
Does it make sense that I may bigender as in transmale and neutrois?
I hope this makes sense
Thank you very much, in advance.
