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Post by 1000provisions on Jul 21, 2015 4:12:13 GMT
So before I came out as trans I dated this guy. It's been a few years but I still really like him. He's straight and I'm technically gay and I want to start talking to him again and trying out a relationship again but I'm not sure if it would be wrong? I know a lot of straight people will stay or be with trans partners because of their genitalia, and I'm wondering if it's selfish of me to try and get to know him again. I know some people shame that but I'm really into this guy. Is it wrong?
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Post by becbecmuffin on Jul 22, 2015 22:54:04 GMT
I think that if he decides to be with you based more on your genitalia than your gender identity, it's probably not the best idea. I would suggest just bringing it up to him and trying to talk to him about it. You may find he's still interested and you may find he isn't. The latter would hurt, but it would probably hurt less being in a relationship where your genitalia are valued more than your gender identity.
Just stay safe and take care of yourself.
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