rowan
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Post by rowan on May 18, 2015 3:20:09 GMT
So i've been thinking about things lately because a few people close to me have come out to me as some form of trans, and this made me think about my own identity and gender. is it normal for cis people to question and think about not being cis? i don't know if what i identify most with and i'm not unhappy with being a cis girl... but i sort of like it when people online use they pronouns for me... that might sound a bit weird but i don't know. no gender identity really seems to feel like it fits, even a lack of gender identity doesn't really feel right... i'm not really sure what i'd like to hear, but i sort of just wanted to talk about it somewhat
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Death by Reindeer
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Post by Death by Reindeer on May 18, 2015 12:08:27 GMT
It's totally ok dude
Obviously I don't really know you but you could be around the neutral area but not have any dysphoria. My recommendation would be to find something you are a bit more comfortable with and maybe try it out for a bit.
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Trying To Be Anonymous
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Post by Trying To Be Anonymous on May 24, 2015 2:13:27 GMT
I'm a girl with a vagina. I like girly things like dresses and jewelry and bright colors. But sometimes, I don't feel like my gender, and sometimes I feel like I'm not a girl, or, at least, not fully. I'm considering experimenting to see if I'm more comfortable as any other gender, but I feel like it would be hard for my friends to try and keep up, and as I am still pretty young, I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting or jumping to conclusions. What should I do about this?
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alex
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Post by alex on May 27, 2015 23:34:49 GMT
The way I see it, if you have any doubts about your gender, it's totally okay and valid to experiment with gender identity until you find the identity that suits you, even if that identity ends up being cis. It's better to try things out and know than be in confusion forever! If you want to talk to me about gender identities (I keep a list of ones I've seen), feel free to talk to me here or at dueldestinies.tumblr.com!
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