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Post by Nina on Apr 26, 2015 20:53:48 GMT
Okay I've asked some stuff before and got some rage over silly little posts about 'Lesbians hating bisexual girls because they have problems with being one' on my dashboard today and wrote something about it. It is kinda long but very important to me, I wanted to submit it to the tumblr page once I'm happy with it so maaaayyybe more people could see it but first I'd like to have some feedback? Cause I gotta admit in my rage I might have done some bad phrasing or there are things that should have been said differently so I would really appreciate some feedback, hey also maybe on the topic and content -> rapsbaer.tumblr.com/lesbians-bisexuals-talk
I know it's long and the beginning is harsh but I tried to make my point clear as it REALLY bothers me. (The links at the end don't work as the sites aren't online yet)
Edit: By the way I am on the accused lesbian side. So this should give some people a different view on the topic
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Post by Misfit Reindeer on Apr 27, 2015 6:49:56 GMT
Yes, this is the place for that, I'm busy with finals so I can't help right now but someone here can.
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Post by becbecmuffin on Apr 27, 2015 15:05:05 GMT
So I'm bisexual myself, and I think it's kind of bullshit that you were bullied because of the way you feel. You're clearly not falling under "believing the biphobic stereotypes". I think the issue here is that you need to examine why you dislike the idea of your girlfriend liking men more than you dislike the idea of her liking women, if that's the case (I'm not entirely sure) and why you feel insecure. Yes, we all do, but it's something that we can all work on. I think that if you and your girlfriend worked together on your insecurity, you probably wouldn't be so worried about the guys that might be around.
I think the post explains yourself pretty well. It's a bit angry, but I guess that's justified. As a bisexual, you are not a "piece of shit", you're not an awful person. I wouldn't even go so far to say that you're biphobic either. You're simply falling prey to the insecurities that we all have in relationships.
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Nina
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Post by Nina on Apr 27, 2015 15:23:25 GMT
Just wanted to say thank you! And yeah actually I do think I have a slightly bigger problem with guys than girls, but I've also been trying to work on that for ages already and soo hard.... and maybe I'm too stupid but I can't get rid of those feelings and it's making me feel veeery bad, cause I don't WANT to feel like that, you see I am fully aware of the fact that this is to some degree wrong but I can't change it and it's really bothering me... I mean I literally start crying cause I hate myself so much for this... But yeah with this text I kind of tried to explain to some very ignorant bisexual girls why what they are saying is not okay but also to kinda understand myself a little more if that makes any sense?? And haha I'm not exactly worried when guys are around, I just get upset when I see my girlfriend talking about how good a guy looks (in a sexual way, you know praising muscles, V-lines blah blah I don't really understand it), it's just kinda upsetting.
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Post by becbecmuffin on Apr 27, 2015 16:45:26 GMT
That's understandable. My first instinct whenever someone is having trouble sorting out their emotions and why they feel the way they do is to recommend seeing a therapist if possible. If it's not possible, just try to talk things through with someone and keep writing. You can discover a lot about yourself by writing down your thoughts.
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