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Post by isotoperuption on Apr 21, 2015 21:16:41 GMT
I've recently settled into my genderfluidness and I'm happy. I flow between identifying as female and agender, I'm just sort of trying to figure out how to present myself as agender.
I know that's kind of a weirdly broad question, but I have only really known how to visually present myself as female. I'd like to look nice/cute but not give way to one gender or the other. I still like to wear makeup because my skin kind of looks like crap and I feel better with it on personally. But as far as how much I scale back to pretty much just make my face look smooth.
I have been trying to figure out how to dress myself as well and I can't help but see myself as female in a good majority of my clothes and I'm super frustrated by it. So I've been sitting around for a couple of weeks trying to figure this out by googling around for agender looks, but all I seem to find is a lot of people wearing skirts or dresses and that really doesn't work for me. I've always seen dresses and skirts as feminine and I'm trying to avoid that on myself, so anyone have any advice or the same problem?
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Post by Misfit Reindeer on Apr 21, 2015 21:25:10 GMT
You're in the right space! We also have a fair number of non-binary users, so hopefully you'll get help soon!
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Post by flowerkid on Apr 22, 2015 2:25:49 GMT
nonbinary person here! first things first, just remember you don't have to look agender to be agender!
now, one thing i've always found that helps is glasses! be as they may seeing aids, they also seem to help me feel more comfortable about my face, as well as androgynous! also, big sweaters and crewnecks help a lot too! they always keep me warm and help confuse people about which gender I am!
also wearing loose fitting clothing helps too. this may not be your thing,but it kept people from being able to see my body shape! thus keeping my gender even more androgynous.
makeup does not make you less agender dude, wear it all you want! all that's important is that you are comfortable with your body.
also drinking water and healthy eating habits help too!
but just remember in the end, you deserve to make yourself happy. so whatever you like dude, nobody can define you! rock on, and be safe!
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Post by isotoperuption on Apr 22, 2015 10:33:23 GMT
I do wear glasses when I'm out in public because I need them to drive, as far as sweaters and what have you I'm in the wrong season currently for that but as soon as the weather goes back to cold weather I will invest in some fluffy sweaters. Thank you so much for the help!
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