QuarterDollar
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Post by QuarterDollar on May 10, 2015 19:39:42 GMT
All right, so I identify as neutrois and have for some time. The problem with that is that I feel I vacillate every so often? Not with my gender itself, but with how I feel about others' perceptions of me, if that makes sense. Some days, she/her is an okay pronoun, not great but not wrong, but other days I'm like "No, stop, go sit in the shame hole." And that sort of makes me feel not trans enough, as it were. Like, there's a line to a roller coaster, and it looks like totally your thing, the best ride meant for you, but the sign at the gate reads "You must be at least this uncomfortable with your assigned gender to ride" and you're like " ??" Gender neutrality is totally my ride, but I feel that I'm just sort of an imposter as it stands. A transtrender, I think they're called. It's partially that I don't wish to burden anyone with the they/them pronoun and partially that since everyone outside the internet sees me as female, who am I to correct them? I am not a girl, and I feel that I should be more uncomfortable with that, but I'm not. IF ANY OF THAT MAKES SENSE /shot
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Death by Reindeer
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Post by Death by Reindeer on May 11, 2015 0:10:47 GMT
That makes total sense
You don't have to be dysphoric to be a certain gender, so I mean it doesn't really matter. You might just be used to it doesn't bother you
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Post by QuarterDollar on May 11, 2015 1:10:58 GMT
That makes total sense You don't have to be dysphoric to be a certain gender, so I mean it doesn't really matter. You might just be used to it doesn't bother you Thank you for the reply. Neutrois has been my experience for as long as I can remember, long before I knew there were more than two genders, way back in elementary school. Have always been referred to as female as well, so perhaps I'm just used to both existing at the same time.
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